Away from Her (2006)
Director:
Sarah Polley
Tagline:
« It’s never too late to become what you might have been »
Actors:
Grant Anderson
Young Fiona
Fiona Anderson
Marian
Veronica
Genre:
Drama
Rating:
(23’839 votes)
(23’839 votes)
Quotes:
« Kristy: And, how old were you when you met?
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« Grant Anderson: She was 18.
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« Kristy: Holy! That's pretty young to get married, eh?
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« Grant Anderson: Wasn't my idea.
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« Kristy: You mean she proposed to you? Well, that's lovely, that's what I think. How'd she do it?
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« Grant Anderson: She hadn't planned it necessarily. We were in Tobermory, waiting for the ferry to Manitoulin, and it was miserable and rainy, and she was in a good mood. And, she didn't want any part of my sour mood.
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« Kristy: What'd she do, what'd she say?
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« Grant Anderson: Well, she said: "Do you think it'd be fun… Do you think it'd be fun if we got married?"
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« Kristy: And what did you say?
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« Grant Anderson: I took her up on it. I shouted yes.
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[pause]
« Grant Anderson: I never wanted to be away from her. She had the spark of life.
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« Fiona: I think I may be beginning to disappear.
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« Fiona: I think all we can aspire to in this situation is a little bit of grace.
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Trailer:
Away From Her
Runtime:110 minutes
Plots:
A man coping with the institutionalization of his wife because of Alzheimer’s disease faces an epiphany when she transfers her affections to another man, Aubrey, a wheelchair-bound mute who also is a patient at the nursing home.
Grant and Fiona Anderson have been married for forty-four years. Their marriage has been a generally happy and loving one although not perfect due to some indiscretions when Grant was working as a college professor. Fiona has just been admitted to Meadowlake, a long term care facility near their country home in southwestern Ontario, because her recent lapses of memory have been diagnosed as a probable case of Alzheimer’s disease. She and Grant made this decision together, although a still lucid Fiona seems to have made peace with the decision and her diagnosis more so than Grant. With respect to the facility, what Grant has the most difficulty with are what he sees as the sadness associated with the facility’s second floor – where the more advanced cases are housed – but most specifically the facility’s policy of no visitors within the first thirty days of admission to allow the patient to adjust more easily to their new life there. Based on what he sees when he is finally able to visit Fiona, Grant ultimately makes a request of Marian Barque, the wife of one of the other patients, a semi-comatose Aubrey Barque, with whom Fiona has struck a friendship and who is now at home permanently with Marian. The request is to see to both Fiona and his own happiness in this unfortunate situation.
Fiona and Grant are an Ontario couple who have been married for over 40 years. Now, in the oncoming twilight of their years, they are forced to face the fact that Fiona’s “forgetfulness” actually is Alzheimer’s Disease. After Fiona wanders away and is found after being lost, they agree she must go into a nursing home. For the first time in the five decades their relationship has spanned, they are forced to undergo a long-time separation since the nursing home has a “no-visitors” policy for the first 30 days of a patient’s stay, so they can adjust to their new surroundings. When Grant visits Fiona after the orientation period, he is devastated to find out that not only has she seemingly forgotten him, Fiona has transferred her affections to another man. The other man is Aubrey, a wheelchair bound mute patient at the nursing home. As the distance between husband and wife grows, Grant must draw upon his love for Fiona to perform an act of self-sacrifice in order to ensure her happiness.

