Rachel Getting Married

Rachel Getting Married (2008)
Director: Jonathan Demme
Tagline: « This is not your family, but this is your family. »
Genres: Drama, Romance
Rating:  vote average (54’276 votes)
Quotes: [Kym speaks at a twelve-step meeting] « Kym: When I was sixteen, I was babysitting my little brother. And I was, um… I had taken all these Percocet. And I was unbelievably high and I… we had driven over to the park on Lakeshore. And he was in his red socks just running around in these piles of leaves. And, um, he would bury me and I would bury him in the leaves. And he was pretending that he was a train. And so he was charging through the leaves, making tracks, and I was the caboose, and I was, um… so he kept saying, coal, caboose! Coal, caboose! And, um, we were… it was time to go and I was driving home… and… I lost control of the car. And drove off the bridge. And the car went into the lake. And I couldn't get him out of his car seat. And he drowned. And I struggle with God so much, because I can't forgive myself. And I don't really want to right now. I can live with it, but I can't forgive myself. And sometimes I don't want to believe in a God that could forgive me. But I do want to be sober. I'm alive and I'm present and there's nothing controlling me. If I hurt someone, I hurt someone. I can apologize, and they can forgive me… or not. But I can change. And I just wanted to share that and say congratulations that God makes you look up, I'm so happy for you, but if he doesn't, come here. That's all. Thank you. » « Rachel: Kym, you took Ethan for granted. Okay? You were high for his life. You were not present. Okay? You were high. » « Kym: [Whispering] Yes. » « Rachel: And you drove him off a bridge… and now he's dead. » « Paul: [Tearfully] Rachel, it was an accident. » « Kym: Yes, I was. Yes, I was stoned out of my mind. Who do I have to be now? I mean, I could be Mother Teresa and it wouldn't make a difference, what I did. Did I sacrifice every bit of… love I'm allowed for this life because I killed our little brother? » « Susanna Galeano: I was wondering, have you ever thought about public relations? » « Kym: The public's kind of afraid of me. »
Runtime:113 minutes
Plots: A young woman who has been in and out of rehab for the past ten years returns home for the weekend for her sister’s wedding. Kym Buchman has been in drug rehab for nine months, during which time she has been clean. She is released temporarily from the facility to attend her sister Rachel Buchman’s wedding. During her release, Kym is staying at the family home, where the wedding is taking place. As such, it is like Grand Central Station for the duration of Kym’s stay, which may not be the most conducive situation for her in constantly being exposed to the watching eyes of those who know and don’t yet know her, but know of her situation. The reunion with her family members starts off well enough, but issues around Kym’s release from rehab quickly surface. Kym and Rachel’s father, Paul Buchman, wants to make sure that Kym is all right at all times, which to Kym feels instead like he doesn’t trust her. Rachel slowly begins to resent Kym’s situation taking over what is supposed to be the happiest day of her life, some of which is directed by Kym, some of which isn’t. One person present but largely not included in the last minute wedding planning work is Kym and Rachel’s mother, Abby, from who Paul is divorced. The two have since married other people. Outwardly, Abby has been nurturing of Kym throughout her life. However, what is one of the key moments in Kym’s drug induced life, and in their collective family’s lives, may profoundly affect the wedding. Beyond how Kym’s presence affects the wedding, the goings-on of the family during Kym’s short stay may either bring them closer together or tear them apart. Kym is released from rehab for a few days so she can go home to attend her sister Rachel’s wedding. The home environment is always challenging for a recovering addict, no less so when the visit is only for a few days. While the sisters feel genuine affection for one another, there is tension in their relationship. Rachel feels that her father dotes on Kym far too much and Kym is upset to learn that Rachel has selected a friend to be her maid of honor. Their father is genuinely concerned about Kym’s well-being but doesn’t see the stress the relationship is causing. Both women also have to deal with their selfish mother who is clearly more concerned with her own well-being ahead of that of her children. Underlying the family’s dynamic is a tragedy that occurred many years previously and for which Kym is held by some to be responsible.
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